Tracking my Parry ancestors led me back to Griffith William Parry, a convict who arrived in New South Wales in 1820. It was easy to track down Griffith's baptism to the slums of London in 1799 and this revealed that his parents were Henry and Catharine Parry, who lived in Primrose Street in Shoreditch, an inner suburb of London. The Parish Registers at St Leonard's, Shoreditch also contained the details of Griffith's siblings and the record of his parent's marriage. Henry Richards Parry married Catherine Smith in 1795. They were both said to be over 21, meaning they were probably born before 1774.
My next step was to look for other information on the couple. I found that Henry died in 1824. The burial register said he was 58 when he died, so he was born somewhere around 1766 (although age at death is not very reliable). Catharine died in 1849 aged 75. This would place her birth around 1774. I also found the 1841 census record for Catherine and her family.
As is my normal practice, I started looking for potential baptisms for both parents in the area where they lived as adults. It quickly became clear that there were literally hundreds of potential baptisms for Catharine. Not only was Catharine (or Catherine) a common name, but Smith was probably the most common surname in London! Henry was not so bad, but still no clear options.
The next step was to go back over the information that I had to see what else I could glean from the records. I spotted that Catharine used a slightly unusual spelling of her name, but the name could have been 'Catharine' or 'Catharina' and did not prove all that helpful in the long run.
The breakthrough in Henry's case came from the marriage register. One of the witnesses who signed the register was Griffith Parry - and the couple named a child Griffith, so that was possibly an important clue. Then I noticed that Griffith had signed his name 'Griffith Parry', then crossed it out and rewrote it as 'Griffith Richards Parry'. That was the same middle name as Henry was using, so that was also an important clue.
Some family trees assumed that Griffith must have been Henry's father. But when Griffith Richards Parry was buried in 1830, his age was given as 60, meaning he was born somewhere around 1770, so he could not have been Henry's father - more likely a contemporary, such as a brother or other close relative.
The other information I had was the names of Henry and Catherine's children (I did not find a marriage for Henry's brother, although that would have been helpful if he had children). It was common for families to use the paternal grandfather's name for the first son. Henry and Catherine's first son was Richard - so Richard or Richards may be particularly important. Other children were named Henry, Griffith, Morris, Jane and Catherine. Only Griffith was given a middle name, William, so that might also be important.
My next search was a complicated one. I first searched for baptisms in the UK of children named Henry Parry baptised around 1766 (plus or minus five years). There were 76 exact name matches although some were listed multiple times. I did the same for a Griffith Parry baptised around 1770. There were only 20 matching baptisms, which dwindled to just 10 once I removed duplicates and other irrelevant records.. Importantly, all the Griffith Parrys were Welsh! Not that surprising because both Griffith and Parry are traditionally Welsh names.
I went back to the Henry Parry list and updated it to just Wales, list came down to 50. Then I looked for matching places. Despite the difficult Welsh names, I found only two places where boys named both Henry and Griffith had been baptised in the target periods - Llandrog in Caernarvonshire and Llanfrothen in Merionethshire. The last step was then to look at the names of the parents in each baptism. The Henry and Griffith Parry baptised in Llandrog had different parents.
There were two Henry Parrys baptised in Llanfrothen in the search period, but one baptised in 1866 had the same parents as the Griffith Parry baptised in 1770. The parents were Richard and Jane Parry. This was the sort of result I was hoping for. There were now three points supporting a theory that Richard and Jane Parry were the parents of the Henry Parry who later married Catharine Smith in London:
- The birth dates of the two brothers were within two years of what was predicted from their age when they died.
- There was only one family in the whole of the UK where brothers named Henry and Griffith Parry were baptised within that timeframe.
- Henry seemingly followed tradition in naming his first son after his own father, Richard.
Encouraged, I pushed on with the research. I discovered that Richard and Jane had two other children baptised at Llanfrothen, a son William the year before Henry and a daughter Jane in 1767, between Henry and Griffith. Widening the area a little, it looked like there were two earlier children born at Trawsfynydd, a village about 15 miles from Llanfrothen. Richard Parry had married Jane Richard at Trawsfynydd in 1749. The name similarities were stacking up!
Richard Parry was baptised in Llanfrothen in 1730, the son of Morris Parry, no mother was given. He buried at Trawsfynydd in 1771, the year after his son Griffith was born.
Having extracted all that I could from the archives, I was satisfied that I had solved the puzzle to a 95% probability. In addition to the minimum three supporting points above, I could now add:
- The mother's maiden name was Richard (or more likely Richards) which explains the middle name used by Henry and Griffith.
- As well as naming his first son after his father, Henry gave his third son the names of his two brothers, Griffith and William.
- Henry also named his daughter Jane after his mother, and his last son Morris after his (Henry's) grandfather.
The evidence supporting this theory is strong, but not unbreakable. It is possible that there were records that have been lost in the 250 years that have passed since Henry Parry was born. It is also possible that there were other brothers who were not baptised in the same place, or that Henry and Griffith were cousins, not brothers.
It is doubtful that there could be further proof, although a DNA link is a possibility. This would rely on identifying a DNA connection with descendants of one of Henry's siblings. Given that this is seven generations from me, I am told that this right at the limits of where DNA evidence is useful. Given I have not had my DNA tested, this is unlikely to happen, although evidence may emerge from one of the other Parry descendants - there are some alive who are at least one generation closer to Henry Parry than me!
I have written this post to show the value of digging deeper into the records available. I used two different family history sites to do this work, and the sort of searching I did was only possible on one. Some of the records were also only available on one system. Had I followed the hints on my main family history service (the one you see advertised), I would not have found this information. Their coverage of Wales is not very good!
How long did it take? It was several years ago now, but I think it was an hour here and an hour there over several weeks. I repeated the steps in writing this post and it took me less than 2 hours. Importantly, I came up with the same answer, even though I was careful not to skip forward.
Was it worth it? I have to be honest and say that a thrill pass through my body several times during this process. I particularly recall a quiet 'YES' escaped me when the name 'Morris Parry' came up in the search for Richard's father. Those thrills are few and far between, but like with a gambling addict, those brief thrills are what makes family history research addictive. You have been warned.
Does in matter? No, not really. Knowing who my 5th-great-grandparents were means nothing really. It will not gain me access to any exclusive club or get me any financial benefits. I do it because I find it interesting, and I like solving puzzles!
Postscript
After posting this item, I continued to check the details I had on the Parry family in Wales. I discovered that the records on which I based the birth of Richard Parry were not complete. I based my search on the marriage of Richard and Jane in 1749. If they were 20 when they married, then they would have been born in about 1729. The problem is that the Parish records for Trawsfynydd that I have been using only start in 1730, Even though I found a matching baptism for Richard Parry, the absence of earlier records does not give me any confidence that there were not other possibilities. As a result, I don't have a lot of confidence that Morris Parry was our Richard's father. This does not change the basic proof thet Richard was Henry Parry's father.
I also discovered that there is possibly a gap in the parish records at Trawsfynydd. This might explain the 10-year gap between the last child born at Trawsfynydd and the next child baptised at Llanfrothen. I would normally expect there to be at least two more children in that period. This could be significant if the family was following the British naming convention, as the names of children give an important clue to the names of the previous generation.